I'm not trying to write a handbook, here. No such thing will ever exist because every situation is so unique. I guess these were more confessions and ramblings than revelations ;)
ETA: I want to start a name gallery for Tyler. I didn't know what this was until a few days ago, but if you see Tyler's name somewhere whether it be in other words or the name of something else, take a pic and send it to me! I see his name EVERYWHERE! Funny story quickly...Jim and I were buying deli meat and the case was made by a company called "Tyler"...isn't that crazy! There is a city in Texas named Tyler...I love that one, too! So if you see his name, take a picture, I'd love to see it! Or write his name in the sand, or spell it in rocks or flowers